(Article from Wyandotte Nation Chief Billy Friend)

Kweh,

I hope this finds you well and enjoying the arrival of a new season.

I want to begin by expressing my sincere gratitude to all of our Tribal Citizens in the Southeastern United States who joined us for our recent Town Hall Meeting in Macon, Georgia. It was a true honor to meet so many of you and your families, many for the very first time.

For over a decade now—12 years, to be exact—we’ve made it a priority to take our annual meeting, traditionally held in Oklahoma, to communities across the country. With more than 7,000 enrolled Wyandotte citizens and only 400–500 typically able to attend in Oklahoma, these Town Hall Meetings have become a vital part of how we stay connected. They’re one of the most meaningful steps we’ve taken as a Nation—strengthening our bonds and ensuring every Wyandotte citizen feels seen, heard, and proud of their identity.

Another initiative I’m incredibly proud of is our Summer Youth Internship Program. Each summer, 20–25 Wyandotte youth between the ages of 16 and 22 join us to gain hands-on work experience and, just as importantly, learn more about their heritage and their role within our Nation. In a world filled with digital noise—phones, computers, social media—this program offers space for reflection, growth, and connection.

Throughout their time with us, we focus on instilling three essential values that lie at the heart of our community: honor, respect, and civility.

• Honor is more than an outward appearance; it’s the quiet commitment to doing what’s right, even when no one is watching. It’s about preparation, thoughtfulness, and integrity.
• Respect goes deeper than simple politeness. It’s about listening with intention, helping others, and working together. As Dave Chief wisely said, “Respect means owning our own negativity and not being a ‘Blame Shifter.’” True respect opens the door to harmony and understanding.
• Civility—common courtesy—is something we don’t see enough of today. Yet it’s essential for meaningful communication and healthy relationships. When we engage with one another respectfully, even difficult conversations can lead to positive outcomes.

It’s inspiring to see our young people showing genuine respect for our elders. Our elders, grounded in a time of fewer distractions, carry stories and wisdom that can guide us all. We encourage our youth to pause, listen, and connect—because in doing so, they’ll uncover powerful lessons.

As we move forward, I challenge each of us to keep the values of honor, respect, and civility alive in our homes, families, and communities. These time-honored principles will serve you well—not only in your personal life, but in every interaction you have. In today’s fast-moving world, it’s easy to lose sight of what really matters. But staying grounded in these values—that, I believe, is the Wyandotte way.

Tizameh,
Chief Friend